Not Broken
A Parent's Guide to Generational Patterns, Root-Cause Healing, and Raising Whole Children
"Neither of you is broken. The patterns are just unhealed. And unhealed things, when they are finally seen, can finally change."
- Tiffany Roberts, PhD
-The Book
What's really
beneath the
behavior
I What's Really Going On With Your Child
The nervous system beneath the meltdown. Why behavior is always a signal. Why discipline often makes things worse.
II The Thread That Connects You Both
Generational patterns. Attachment blueprints. The subconscious programs running below awareness. The mirror your child holds up to you.
III The Healing That Changes Everything
Five foundational practices. The language of connection. Identity-level change through The Switch™. What becomes possible for your whole family.
Reader Stories-
Lives Changed
*****
I was able to completely reverse my hypothyroidism and get off all thyroid supplements I had been taking for over 12 years. My chronic pain has lessened considerably. The anxiety and panic attacks are gone.
Wendy
HMT Client
*****
As a sensitive parent of a sensitive 10-year-old, I sometimes struggle to guide my daughter through the noise and the big feelings. This book teaches you precisely that. Even if the world around us doesn't change — we can.
Marielle
Parent, Netherlands
*****
An absolute game-changer. I would go so far as to say every school should make this book mandatory for all students and teachers. I'd give it 10 stars if I could.
Chris
Parent & Educator
About the Author-
The story
behind the book
I did not set out to write a parenting book. I set out to understand what happened in a kitchen, when I lost my patience with my daughter over a smoothie — and saw, in her face, the thing I had always feared becoming.
That moment became a decade of clinical work, original research, and the development of two trademarked healing methodologies now used by families around the world. The work did not begin with credentials. It began with honesty.
I hold a Master's degree and a PhD in Natural Medicine, and I am the founder of The Subconscious Healer, and Psychosomatic University. Together with my husband Dr. Gabe Roberts, DC, I co-developed Holographic Manipulation Therapy™ and The Switch™ — two methodologies that go deeper than any parenting book has gone before.
- PhD & Master's in Natural Medicine
- Co-developer, Holographic Manipulation Therapy™ (2024)
- Co-developer, The Switch™ (2026)
- Founder, · The Subconscious Healer · Psychosomatic University
- Host, Not Broken Podcast
- Author, The Switch for Kids and Teens and 13 other books.
-The Methodology
Not just a book.
A clinical framework.
Not Broken is grounded in two trademarked methodologies developed through more than a decade of clinical practice — going further than any parenting approach has gone before.
HMT™ · Est. 2024
Holographic Manipulation Therapy
A somatic, mind-body approach that identifies the hidden subconscious survival patterns stored in the nervous system — and helps the brain and body recognize that the original threat is no longer happening now. When the subconscious no longer believes it is trapped in the past, the body begins to shift.
The Switch™ · Est. 2026
The Switch
Identity-level change. Not behavior management — not mindset work — a fundamental reorganization of the nervous system's coherence with the survival-based self. When that coherence breaks, the patterns begin dissolving naturally. Not coping better. Becoming someone different.
- FREE CHALLENGE
The Not Broken
Parent Challenge
14 days. One chapter per day. Discussion, community, and the beginning of real change — before the book even launches. Starts August 18, 2026.
📖 One chapter daily
💬 Live Community
🎁 Complete the challenge and receive the $47 Family Starter Kit
⭐ August 7- August 21
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The Ecosystem-
THE WORK
CONTINUES HERE
🎙️ Not Broken Podcast
The ongoing conversation — behavior, nervous system health, generational healing, and the work that changes families.
👶 The Switch for Kids and Teens
The companion book for your child — practices calibrated for their developing nervous system.
⚡ The Switch Program
Identity-level change through the full Switch methodology with trained practitioners and community.
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🌿 HMT Practitioners
Work directly with a trained HMT practitioner for somatic pattern work and nervous system healing.
